I have knowledge of one of her social media accounts where I can contact her.Should I contact her through that medium, or just let sleeping dogs lie?Trying to play the “cool card” when you are anything but, isn’t going to bring him closer.He’s going to smell a disharmonious vibe wafting off you: you say you’re fine but your energy screams, “Do you love me or not, and why don’t you show it more?!
Another modern concept, “bread-crumbing” is the despicable practice of basically messing with someone by throwing down little bread crumbs of (digital) interest, without ever consummating an actual “meet.” Just as modern life makes it easy to connect, it is also easier to disconnect, with few consequences.
Are you trying really hard not to ruffle his “commitment feathers” by asking him how he feels about you?
Are you, instead, trying your best to show him what a great catch you are by being the sweet, fun-time, easy-breezy gal on the outside (even if you are crumbling with worry and insecurity on this inside)?
" Another typical scenario is where you tell a guy you really like him, to which he responds by smiling and giving you a nice little hug and kiss.
Ten minutes later you ask him, "Well, do you like me, too? If there are things he likes to do that simply don't interest you, be cool with it. If you're going to a cocktail party together, you don't have to be on top of him at every moment.